"When we speak of sexual relations between a man and a woman we refer to the act when the penis enters the vagina. It is important to know that penetration is only one way of sexual contact. To kiss, embrace, touch and stroke the body of a girl you like (and she does the same to you) are also ways of sexual contact without implying to maintain sexual relationships".
Karen Gravelle.

"There are a lot of ways to have sexual contact without performing the sexual act. If you consider getting sexually active remember that there are various possibilities to enjoy your and your partner's body, for example through oral sex or mutual masturbation. Make your sex life something very enjoyable and pleasant and do never feel obliged to perform the coitus with somebody".
Michael Gurian.