I am 14 years old and I like a girl that is one year younger than I am but she will leave this school at the end of the term. What do I do if I love this girl so much and she is the first one I have this kind of feeling for?
I think you are in love with her and this is very nice. It means that you are entering a very important stage of your life. If she leaves this school, try to approach her, tell her that you would like to call her on the phone, exchange e-mails and keep your friendship. This would be a first way of showing her your interest.

Analyse how she reacts. If she tells you that she isn't sure what to do, don't insist immediately and respond with something like: I would be happy if you think the same but if you don't it doesn't matter.

Analyse once more her reactions and keep calm.

Meanwhile try to find out what she likes: Music? Poetry? Reading? And thus you could prepare something to give her as a present.

Write her a letter, telling her things about you, your ideas, what you like to be once you are an adult. Don't confess your feelings to her because it could easily fall in other people's hands. Simply tell her your interest in an indirect way.

The worst you can do is to do nothing.

If you are brave, search for a moment to talk to her and tell her that you like her a lot. Then wait how she reacts. If she tells you something like: "I don't care", don't respond. Wait. Tell her that that is ok and that you only liked to tell her. Then pass to another subject.

What you are experiencing right know we all have gone through. I faced the same situation with a girl named Olga. She had blond hair and green eyes. We have been in the same class. I wore a pinafore and studied at a catholic school. She was my first real girlfriend. Before I had pre-relationships with other girls and it took me a lot telling her that I liked her. We had been holding hands one Sunday at the cinema and later I asked her if she liked to be my girlfriend and she said yes. We have been a couple for a year or so and then broke up on mutual agreement. As it has been my first love, I will never forget her. I hope you have just the same beautiful experience.

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