A girl I like a lot has given me signs that tell she would like to start a relationship with me: How do I confess my love to her?

The situation is simple: She is already giving you signs so that you could take the next step. Search for the right moment and do it. Tell her that you love her. It is not that hard as you might think. Just find the adequate moment. She is flirting with you using all her young feminine charm. Now its your turn to show some of yours.

The details that you have told me, saying that she comes to sit on your lap while being at her parents house, letting you hold her hand, telling you personal things - all that are clear signs that she likes to be more with you than friends. And you were very wise to first analyse these signs but to remain careful. It shows that you have reached a good degree of maturity at this age.

Be nice and loving to her. If she gives you her hand, take it softly, caress and press it gently into yours. Embrace her carefully and tell her things about you as well, about your worries, your plans, ideas and leisure time activities.

I think it is the moment to go ahead and do it if you haven't done it yet.

And in case she is just flirting with you, don't get involved in that game. It could be simply her way to be and act. Then feign to have forgotten about her, reject her, don't pay attention to her but to other things or as well to other girls. Play your own game and watch how she reacts. If she responds positively, you will have the chance to insist. If she reacts negatively, don't pay more attention to her. You are young and only at the beginning of the most wonderful stage of a human being's life. Remember, you have got it ALL ahead.

Asked by a boy from Chile