If I am 16 years old and have had wet dreams only a few times, is that good or bad?

It is not important how many times a boy has had wet dreams and involuntary nocturnal ejaculations. If you have them, than this is absolutely normal, if you don't, then this is also normal. The most important thing is that your sexuality works normally.

Saying that you have had them a couple times means, that your endocrine system and thus your sexuality work just fine.

Don't worry. A lot of boys have few wet dreams or don't have them at all, either because their sexuality hasn't quite developed yet or they masturbate with a certain frequency releasing their sexual excitement this way. On the contrary, nocturnal emissions are involuntary and happen during the night as a natural way of preparing your sexuality.

Asked by a boy from Dominican Republic