1. What is the age difference between you and your boy/girlfriend?
   1. we are the same age
   2. one year
   3. two years
   4. three years
   5. more than four years
2. How many relationships have you had before this one?
   1. none
   2. one
   3. more than two
3. How long have you been together until now?
   1. less than one month
   2. more than one month
   3. more than three months
   4. more than six months
   5. more than one year
4. Are you studying?
   1. yes
   2. no
5. Is your partner studying?
   1. yes
   2. no
6. Have your parents allowed you to have this relationship?
   1. yes
   2. no
7. Has your partner been allowed to have this relationship with you?
   1. yes
   2. no
8. Have you met your partner's parents?
   1. yes
   2. no
9. Has you partner met your parents?
   1. yes
   2. no
10. Have your parents met the parents of your partner?
    1. yes
    2. no
11. Have your parents allowed your partner to come to your home?
    1. yes
    2. no
12. Have your partner's parents allowed you to come to their home?
    1. yes
    2. no
13. Do you think that your parents like to see that you are having a relationship?
    1. yes
    2. no
    3. I don't know
    4. they don't care
14. Do you think that the parents of your partner like to see you two together?
    1. yes
    2. no
    3. I don't know
    4. they don't care
15. How often do you see each other?
    1. every day
    2. more than once a week
    3. only on holidays
    4. only when we have the possibility
16. When you see each other:
    1. you always meet at the same place
    2. you often discuss about where to meet
    3. you always agree about where to meet
    4. you always decide on where to go and your partner accepts it
    5. your partner always decides and you agree
17. You and your partner live:
    1. in the same district
    2. a reasonable distance from each other
    3. very far from each other
18. You:
    1. are an only child
    2. have older siblings
    3. have younger siblings
19. Your partner:
    1. is an only child
    2. has older siblings
    3. has younger siblings
20. You parents:
    1. live a normal marriage
    2. discuss and fight constantly
    3. are divorced and you live with one of them
    4. your mom/dad is widowed
    5. you live with relatives
21. Your partner's parents:
    1. you don't know anything about them
    2. you know that they live a good marriage
    3. you know that they are divorced
    4. you know that they often discuss and fight
22. Do you think that kissing is necessary in a relationship?
    1. yes, always
    2. no
    3. yes, sometimes
23. Do you liken it when your partner kisses you on the mouth?
    1. yes, always
    2. no
    3. yes, sometimes
24. Do you like being caressed by your partner?
    1. yes, always
    2. no
    3. yes, sometimes
25. Has your partner tried to kiss your intimate spots?
    1. yes, always
    2. no
    3. yes, sometimes
26. Do you accept the intimate caresses?
    1. yes, always
    2. no
    3. yes, sometimes
27. Does your partner like being kissed on the mouth?
    1. yes, always
    2. no
    3. yes, sometimes
28. Does your partner like your caresses?
    1. yes, always
    2. no
    3. yes, sometimes
29. Have you tried to kiss intimate spots of your partner's body?
    1. yes, always
    2. no
    3. yes, sometimes
30. Does your partner accept that you kiss his intimate spots?
    1. yes, always
    2. no
    3. yes, sometimes
31. Did your partner get upset or annoyed when you tried to kiss his intimate spots?
    1. yes, always
    2. no
    3. yes, sometimes
32. Did you get upset or annoyed when your partner tried to kiss your intimate spots?
    1. yes, always
    2. no
    3. yes, sometimes
33. Do you like holding hands while walking?
    1. yes, always
    2. no
    3. yes, sometimes
34. Does your partner like holding hands?
    1. yes, always
    2. no
    3. yes, sometimes
35. Do you smoke?
    1. yes, always
    2. no
    3. yes, sometimes
36. Does your partner smoke?
    1. yes, always
    2. no
    3. yes, sometimes
37. Does your partner drink alcohol at parties?
    1. yes, always
    2. no
    3. yes, sometimes
38. Do you drink alcohol at parties?
    1. yes, always
    2. no
    3. yes, sometimes
39. Do you fully trust your partner?
    1. yes
    2. no
40. Do you think that your partner trusts you fully?
    1. yes
    2. no
41. If somebody told you that he/she has seen your partner kissing another boy/girl, which of the following reactions would fit you most?
    1. you wouldn't believe it
    2. you would ask if that's really true
    3. you would break up with your partner
    4. you would be hurt but you wouldn't end the relationship
    5. you wouldn't mention anything towards your partner but you would try to find out if it's true
42. Are you a jealous person?
    1. yes, always
    2. no
    3. yes, sometimes
43. Do you like to go to parties?
    1. yes, always
    2. no
    3. yes, sometimes
44. Does your partner like to go to parties?
    1. yes, always
    2. no
    3. yes, sometimes
45. When you are together you:
    1. talk a little about everything
    2. only talk about each other and about your relationship
    3. talk about your studies/job
    4. don't talk
    5. have hardly any conversations
46. Do you like a certain sports club?
    1. yes
    2. a little
    3. no
47. Does your partner like a certain sports club?
    1. yes
    2. a little
    3. no
48. Do you believe in god?
    1. yes
    2. no
    3. I have my doubts
49. Does your partner believe in god?
    1. yes
    2. no
    3. he/she has his/her doubts
50. Are you sympathetic to a certain political ideology?
    1. yes
    2. no
    3. I'm not interested in politics
51. Does your partner sympathize with a certain political ideology?
    1. yes
    2. no
    3. I don't care
52. Do you both like the same music?
    1. yes
    2. no
53. When you talk about something, does your partner listen to you silently?
    1. yes, always
    2. no
    3. yes, sometimes
54. Do you listen when your partner is talking?
    1. yes, always
    2. no
    3. yes, sometimes
55. Do you try to correct your partner's ideas?
    1. yes, always
    2. no
    3. yes, sometimes
56. Does your partner try to correct your ideas?
    1. yes, always
    2. no
    3. yes, sometimes
57. The economical situation of your parents compared to the one of your partner's parents is:
    1. a lot better
    2. a little bit better
    3. the same
    4. worse
    5. a lot worse
58. Was there a time when you thought about breaking up with your partner?
    1. no, never
    2. yes, there were a few times
    3. I'm thinking about it right now
    4. yes, very often
    5. yes, once
59. When you both are out with friends:
    1. you are permanently at his/her side
    2. you are distant from your partner
    3. you share with your partner and your friends
    4. you both prefer to be alone with nobody around you
    5. you prefer to be with other people without your partner being around
60. Do you like the same movies?
    1. yes
    2. no
61. Do you like flowers and plants?
    1. yes
    2. no
62. Mark the one of the seasons you like the most
    1. winter
    2. spring
    3. fall
    4. summer
63. Choose one of the following colours with which you would paint your house:
    1. grey
    2. red
    3. light blue
    4. black
    5. yellow
64. If you found a 100$ while going for a walk with your partner, you would:
    1. take and keep it
    2. give half of it to your partner
    3. buy ice cream or a drink (a non alcohol drink) for both of you
    4. give all the money to your partner
    5. buy your partner something for not more than 20$
65. Do you criticize your partner's language?
    1. yes, always
    2. no, it is not necessary
    3. sometimes
66. Does your partner criticize you for the language you use?
    1. yes, always
    2. no, it is not necessary
    3. sometimes
67. Do you bite your nails?
    1. yes
    2. no
68. Does your partner bite his/her nails?
    1. yes
    2. no
69. Do you like the clothes your partner wears?
    1. yes
    2. no
    3. that is immaterial to me
70. Have you distanced yourself from your friends because of your relationship?
    1. yes, a lot
    2. only little
    3. no, not at all
71. Has your family told you that you are not the same person like before or that you have changed since you have this relationship?
    1. yes, they always do
    2. no, they have never said anything like that
    3. yes, sometimes they do
72. Does your partner grant you the freedom to go out with your friends?
    1. yes, always
    2. no, never
    3. yes, sometimes
73. Do you grant your partner the freedom to go out with his/her friends?
    1. yes, always
    2. no, never
    3. yes, sometimes
74. When your partner tells you that he/she won't be able to see you for a week, you:
    1. get mad
    2. don't care
    3. ask when you will see each other again
    4. are happy
    5. ask him/her what exactly he/she will be doing
75. If you told your partner that you wouldn't be able to see him/her for a week, what do you think his/her reaction would be?
    1. he/she wouldn't say anything
    2. he/she would accept it without asking for you to explain the reason
    3. he/she would get mad
    4. he/she wouldn't care
    5. he/she would ask you to explain precisely why not
76. Does your partner buy you presents?
    1. yes, always
    2. no, never
    3. yes, occasionally
77. Do you buy your partner presents?
    1. yes, always
    2. no, never
    3. yes, occasionally
78. What do you find most attractive about your partner?
    1. his/her eyes
    2. his/her face in general
    3. his/her body in general
    4. his/her hands
    5. his/her legs
79. Do the conversations with your partner bore you?
    1. yes, always
    2. no
    3. yes, sometimes
80. Would you want that your partner changes his way of thinking and analysing the things?
    1. a little bit
    2. yes
    3. no
    4. only in some aspects
    5. absolutely
81. How do you believe you are?
    1. attractive
    2. irresistible
    3. ordinary
    4. little attractive
    5. something better than the others
82. Have you talked about sex with your partner?
    1. yes, once
    2. yes, often
    3. no, never
83. Do you think you would like to marry your partner some day?
    1. yes
    2. no
    3. I haven't thought about it yet
    4. This is not my worry right now
    5. this only time will tell
84. Have you thought about the possibility to meet someone better than your current partner?
    1. yes
    2. no
85. Do you talk about personal and family problems with you partner?
    1. yes, always
    2. no
    3. sometimes
86. Does your partner talk to you about his personal problems or problems at home?
    1. yes, always
    2. no
    3. sometimes
87. If you got a call while being at school/at university/at work finding out that your partner had an accident, what would you do?
    1. burst out in tears and scream
    2. worry and therefore ask for permission to go to his/her home or to the hospital to see him/her
    3. worry but you would eventually go back to the things you've been working on
    4. you wouldn't know what to do at all
    5. you wouldn't believe what they told you
88. If your partner told you in this very moment that he/she decided to break up with you, do you think you would find somebody new in order to replace him/her?
    1. I don't know
    2. yes, instantly
    3. no
    4. no but I would start to search immediately
    5. nobody is replaceable
89. How long do you think will your current relationship last?
    1. three months
    2. six months
    3. forever
    4. I don't know
    5. until I have found someone better
90. Which of the following statements fits your idea of a relationship during teen years most?
    1. it's a wonderful stage of live
    2. it's something without ties and commitments
    3. it's a good way to have a good time
    4. it's a natural and typical stage of adolescence
    5. it's something indefinable
91. Do you care about your future?
    1. a lot
    2. it is not yet the time to think about it
    3. I don't think about it at this moment
    4. no
    5. sometimes
92. Imagine you receive a scholarship and have the possibility to go abroad for six months for further education or training and your parents have given you their agreement but you are the one that decides in the end, what would you do?
    1. you would grab this chance immediately
    2. you would only go if your partner agrees
    3. you wouldn't know what to do
    4. you would ask for advise
    5. you would immediately reject the offer
93. Do you tell your partner the things you dislike about him/her?
    1. yes, I always do
    2. I have never done it so far
    3. sometimes I do
94. Does your partner tell you the things he/ she doesn't like about you?
    1. yes, he/she always does
    2. no, he/she has never done it so far
    3. yes, sometimes he/she does
95. When you are together with your partner, you feel:
    1. protection
    2. a mixture of deep love and physical attraction
    3. the wish that he/she will go soon
    4. the wish that he/she kisses, embraces and caresses you
    5. solidarity and the wish to share your love and desire with him/her
96. Which of the following statements fits the description of your partner most?
    1. He/she is the ideal person for me
    2. I could imagine marrying him/her some day
    3. He/she is a nice person but I think that there is a better one for me out there
    4. He/she is not how I expected him/her to be
    5. He/she is a nice person but I'm looking for a better one
97. Do you like poems about love?
    1. yes
    2. no
98. When you have a date with your partner, you:
    1. go to see him though you do not have the permission from pour parents
    2. don't go to see him/her if you don't have the permission from your parents
    3. don't go to see him/her if you have to study or to work
    4. don't go to see him/her because you are simply not interested in meeting him/her
    5. tell him/her in case you can't come
99. Do you think that the communication between the two of you works well?
    1. yes, always
    2. no
    3. only sometimes
100. As a final question, which of the following statements fits you most?
     1. You have to live every single moment to the fullest, so as if it was the last
     2. Mistakes are there for teaching us to do it better the next time
     3. Nobody has asked me if I want to live in this world and therefore I do what I want without giving any explanations to anybody
     4. Life is characterized by different stages and each human being will achieve his goals little by little
     5. I have so many problems without even thinking that this was life

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